Toxicity in games
Toxicity in games
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Looks like a really toxic situation unfolded. Probably someone on For Honor used an open mic—remember, it was my teammate. He claimed he was wealthy and top-tier, while I was seen as inferior, getting dragged around. Suddenly he dropped a racial slur and said I was a "n****" for how I played. I told him I wasn’t backing down and kept responding in chat when safe, without letting it hurt my team. He kept being rude, even saying he hated me. I stayed calm and communicated through text to avoid any fallout. The game itself was fast-paced, with quick respawns, making his performance seem even more lacking. I actually played perfectly and ended up with the highest score for my team.
It was my first battle in World of Tanks, but the lag was too strong. I had a slow fight, lost control of my tank, hit walls, and made too many turns. One of my early teammates who got destroyed was still watching and yelled rude things at me, saying things like "you noob, can't even drive the tank!" I tried to calm him down, saying it was my first battle and that my bad ping made me a noob, but he just turned off the game.
I've experienced numerous disappointing matches in Team Fortress 2, yet one particularly memorable moment stood out—a time when a team felt intensely frustrated after winning. Believe it or not, I can't explain it much better. It was probably frustration over everything else falling apart.
I played one match in Paladins where a player stood out. Toward the end, he kept spamming his Twitch stream. That’s fine. For fun, I listened to it. Then I started another game. It turned out I faced this same player again, but on the opposing team. I crushed them, and the match ended 4-0. The next game was the same—again they showed up, and I took them down 4-0. At that point, I wasn’t climbing the ranks, so I appeared as an unranked player. The person I beat twice in a row was a Grand Master, the top rank. They were really upset and raged for about 20 minutes, accusing me of cheating. That’s some good content!
I've experienced a variety of situations over the years. I started in competitive CoD4, moved to public servers for BF3/4, and now play in Overwatch. The main challenge, particularly with OW, is that people often avoid addressing toxicity. In OW, if you're unfamiliar with a game, there are characters or heroes with unique abilities, making them valuable in different ways. Asking someone to change can be normal, but it quickly turns negative when criticism becomes personal (mostly because they aren't contributing enough). It escalates when names are called or stats are compared.
I've faced some problems too. One instance involved two players waiting together—essentially stacking roles. One was focused on DPS while the other was a tank. They kept criticizing one team member about not healing enough, suggesting they weren't playing well. I didn’t see any real issue with that player (it seemed the DPS was overextending). I told them to stop and let the others support them. Afterwards, I was labeled toxic for making fun of their reaction to feedback and lack of self-reflection. They claimed they reported me, which led to a support member quitting the match. I reported both for poor behavior.
The second time was worse. Usually I don’t get frustrated during gameplay—my main concern is personal performance and mistakes. But when I started noticing negative behavior, it became difficult. One player posted racist, homophobic, or discriminatory messages in chat from the start. I addressed it in voice chat, saying something like, “That was a good ulti… for a bad word.” The opponent retorted, “For a R-word,” and then left the match. Later, I stopped participating in OW due to ongoing issues.
I’m generally not bothered by others’ behavior once I’m playing, but I struggle with my own standards and making errors. Sometimes I feel like I’m just not living up to expectations, which makes it harder to stay motivated.