Securing your connection to the web.
Securing your connection to the web.
He’s playing on a PC or console. Blocking the MAC address could help, but it’s better to remove the device entirely and explain clearly why it’s being taken away. Parents often resort to passive-aggressive tactics like internet blocking. Instead, take the machine away and discuss the situation directly with him about what he must do to regain it.
They haven't done anything to take his rig or hide it. It probably belongs to his parents, not his own.
As others have mentioned, you and your parents should focus on two key steps. First, get your brother ready for a full-time job—anything but something he can’t handle alone. Once he’s employed, he’ll be able to cover internet costs. Second, restrict his online access by using router settings, MAC filtering, and changing the Wi-Fi password. Make sure the admin password is updated and consider physically securing the router so it can’t be reset.
I’m a millennial with a full-time job, my own home, and all the responsibilities myself. It’s surprising how many young people today act like entitled individuals. I don’t blame your parents since it seems you came out well. If all else fails, the last option is to remove him from the household. His sister’s boyfriend faced the same situation—eventually he realized it was the best decision his parents made for him.
Just need to keep the MAC address blocked for his wireless NIC too. Even then he might just purchase a USB device with a different ID, but he doesn’t have a job yet. haha
It seems your mother might benefit from some serious guidance beyond simple technical fixes. While many here rely on computers and IT, few have achieved success through isolation. It’s normal to feel uncertain about your path, even at 21, but finding purpose in productivity can bring real fulfillment. Even small daily tasks like maintaining the home can offer meaningful satisfaction.